孩子表现不好，父母应承担责任并受惩罚吗?

　　Should Parants Accept Responsibility and Also Be Punished if Their Children Behave Badly?

　　In fact, parents play a very important role in the growing of children. However, we can＇t think that parents should accept responsibility and be punished if their children behave badly. Or else, it would be unfair to some parents；we should consider the question objectively.

　　Some parents teach their children very carefully, telling them what to do, how to do, what is wrong, and what is right. They try their best to guide their childrn, offering advice to children for their study and life. With the instruction of parents, some children behave very well. However, there are still children who behave badly. Under this circumstance, we shouldn＇t criticize parents if their children behave badly.

　　Certainly there are other kinds of parents, who are busy doing their own business day and night, ignoring the education of children. Though they offer best life to their children, they neglect to teach their children how to think properly. In this situation, parents should be punished if their children behave badly.

　　In a word, we should consider different situations and make objective decisions, for many factors might result in bad behaviour of children. Perhaps parents are one of the factors. Besides the above situations, there are others. Those parents who are behaving bodly may result that their children behave badly. This kind of parents should be punished.

　　Therefore, irresponsible parents should be punished. We should give an overall consideration to this issue.

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　　孩子表现不好，父母是否应该负责或受罚?作者认为应国情况而论。论述比较客观，从负责任的父母和不负责任的父母两种情况来看，应采取不同的态度。议论合情合理，以理服人。

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　　孩子表现不好，父母应承担责任并受惩罚吗?

　　事实上，父母在孩子成长的过程中扮演着非常重要的角色。不过，如果孩子们表现不好，我们不能认为父母应承担责任或接受惩罚。否则对一些父母是不公平的。我们应客观地考虑问题。

　　一些父母非常慎重地教育自己的子女。告诉他们做什么，怎样做，什么是错误，什么是正确。他们努力地引导孩子的行为，并且提供学习与生活的忠告。由于有父母的指引，一些孩子表现良好。然而，还有表现不好的，在这种情况下，我们不应批评父母。

　　当然，有些父母日夜忙着做自己的事，不关心子女的教育问题。虽然他们给子女提供最优裕的生活条件，他们忽略了应教给孩子们如何思考。在这种情况下，如果孩子表现不好，父母应受到惩罚。

　　总而言之，我们应该区别对待不同的情况，因为导致孩子们表现不好的因素很多。也许父母就是其中之一。除上述情况外，还有其他情况。那些表现不好的父母极有可能影响到自己孩子的行为。这样的父母应受惩罚。

　　因此，那些不负责的父母应该受到惩罚。

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